I’ve been to a lot of clubs over the years. One of the things that has always caught my attention in a non sexual way is the use of liquid courage in swinging.
It amazes me how many people need alcohol to cut loose and have fun. It’s as if alcohol is the key that unlocks their inhibitions.
This seems especially true with many women.
They enter the club seeming very reserved, and then an hour later they are stripping on the dance floor and rubbing on everyone because they slammed a couple large glasses of wine.
The shy wives are my favorite. These wives aren’t new to swinging, they are just simply shy or have some social anxiety. Three glasses of wine later though they are super swinger wives.
These types are very fun. They also know their limits or their husband knows them and the wife understands he’s keeping tabs for her own sake so goes with it.
These women don’t get wasted, they just get buzzed and have fun with lowered inhibitions.
As a personal rule I will never play with a woman for the first time under any circumstances if she is drunk. I don’t know that her brain is firing right or she’d be into it sobber.
If we’ve had fun before when she was with it I’m down if she’s tipsy as I know we are good. Tipsy, not wasted.
Can’t get into a wasted person. They annoy me.
Shy wives that go for some liquid courage in swinging are cool, but… I can’t say the same thing for newbie women in the swinger world.
I always wonder if they are needing the booze to shed a bit of nervousness, or if maybe they are needing the booze to allow themselves to do something they aren’t 100% on board with.
I avoid these people like the plague.
What is funny about my doing that is it causes problems. I’m a person that makes a point of walking up to couples that appear new and out of place when I see them. I like to say hi, chit chat a tad, and then wander off.
The problem arises when the newbie couple gets a few sheets to the wind from drinking more than they should and then they think they should come talk to me.
Nope, go away drunk.
Avoiding drunk men is an always. They are usually new as most guys who swing regularly learn pretty quick that the more they drink the less people want to get down with them. Slobbery drunk, sometimes rude, often doing inappropriate things, and… if you give them a chance there exists an extra fun possibility they’ll get whiskey dick or will jack rabbit without ever being able to finish. Both cases are yuck.
Liquid courage in swinging can be a beneficial for some. It can help a person cut loose. It can open up an otherwise wallflower into a participant, but liquid courage in swinging can also be a bad thing when a person has even one to many to keep their cool.
Neither of us need it, but we do have more fun socializing with a drink or two. I usually stick to just a couple. My Vixen likes three, and sometimes four. That’s about it though.
The meme or caption shown (never sure what to call such things) with this Liquid courage in swinging pretty much sums up my Vixen’s behavior at a swing club. We like to find a place to sit, we people watch, have a couple drinks, and after three glasses if they weren’t spread out a good ways she gets antsy and wasn’t to be naughty.
She’s a fun and entertaining woman.
What should your takeaway be from this quick read?
A bit of liquid courage in swinging is just fine, but getting drunk in a swinger environment is not a good idea.
Not only will many people avoid and judge you, but you are also at risk of making decisions in your intoxicated state that you may regret.
That’s my opinion based on attending uncountable parties, takeovers, clubs, and other events over the years.
Take it or leave it, but I suggest taking it.
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